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The picture is of my 15yr old son, wu002F his knowledge. Agreement that face is obscured for his protection. We have frequent discussions about everyday life & how the world around him affects him & his future. Having non-judgemental conversations has made it possible for him to feel able to be honest with us with his mistakes(His words.)Even if he mayu002Fwill face consequences. And being deceitful would bring harsher consequences. Making mistakes is human. We as parents even have apologized to HIM if we had doneu002Fsaid something without due cause. Accountability sets the example. His awareness of his surroundings as he grows older as a young Black man is essential. These are things I CANNOT, WILL NOT be able to fulfill with who I am optics & culturally wise. (Acceptance.) We foster fluid communication in our home for THIS very reason. HIS safety & also that of my husband is paramount in times like these especially. AWARENESS of my Optics is key. It's NOT a